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HELLO YOU, Tássia here 👋

I created Secret Club when I was really missing conversations with my female friends. From chit chat to deep reflections on being a woman, getting a partner, divorcing, being single, having babies or not, how not to be on a diet, toxic exes... all of it.

I’m an overthinker, and my writing is a spillover of the conversations I keep having with friends over brunch, through voice notes, and on Instagram. I’m obsessed with how patriarchal society makes us act, dress, blame ourselves, choose less (or pink!), be apologetic, or guilty. I question myself and spiral into these topics in my therapy sessions — I love it.

The reflections and insights become essays that I send you once a week.

I’m also a tarot reader, and the arcana plays a big part in my work.
Aquarius sun, Leo rising, Cancer moon 🌙
Late-night writing in fancy pajamas, after a long shower and a glass of rosé, is my idea of a perfect Friday night.

I’m based in Helsinki, and my favorite thing about this city is the second-hand shopping culture. I believe in dressing your character and expressing yourself through style without feeding the fashion machine.

What about you? I’d love to hear your story down below!

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